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In the past, one of the famous writers of the Turkish "Hürriyet" newspaper, extravagant, comfortable with intimate topics, Ayşe Arman, who wrote directly and without hints, put Turkish men and women face to face in her column. The fact that the opposite sex opened up about their problems, which were stored in their hearts, caused an emotional explosion effect. The parties speak almost contemptuously of each other's faults and defects, from domestic life to sex. they opened Several points in the letters written by women particularly attracted my attention: "Turkish men treat their women in bed can't make you happy. "Women who don't want to disappoint their husbands laugh at their faces and pretend to have reached orgasm." I wonder what percentage of women in our society play this fake role? No, it would be more correct to put the question like this: What percentage of women in Azerbaijan know about orgasm aware and experienced this feeling in their sexual life? According to statistics, 30 percent of women in the world do not reach orgasm, and 18 percent rarely he experiences this pleasure. Also, according to a survey conducted among 360 women aged 18-32 in America, about 60 percent of them said that they fake orgasm. Only 25 percent of men bring a woman to real orgasm. There are no statistics on this in Azerbaijan. It is natural. Not least because we still live in a conservative society dominated by patriarchal thinking. But when talking about this topic with familiar women and friends, it becomes clear that some of them does not know what orgasm is, and the other part is forced to simulate orgasm. One of the reasons is that the concept of sexual education and sexual culture in our society is at a low level, even is equal to zero. In general, even using the word "sex" is considered indecent and shameful. There is total sexual ignorance in society, and some women have no idea about "orgasm" because of ignorance. In addition, Azerbaijani men are usually hedonistic, selfish and lazy in sexual relations. It is known that women reach orgasm later than men. Therefore, a man should throw away the stone of laziness and master the games of love. Because according to research, a man's behavior affects a woman's orgasm. And most women who have a romantic, gentle, sensual partner reach orgasm. Come on, Azerbaijani men don't think about this in bed. According to their "national moral" thinking, it is not necessary for a woman to experience sexual pleasure. Her main mission is to give pleasure to her husband and give birth to a child. According to women's confessions, after men have fulfilled their "sexual duty" and reached orgasm, most in some cases, they sleep with their backs turned to women. They don't care what the woman feels, whether she enjoys the sexual act or not. Women who experience orgasm imitate this feeling for various reasons. According to typical eastern laws, women are required to serve their husbands from childhood in the family, to obey his wishes. they inculcate providing as an important task. Men abuse this and exploit women not only at home, but also in bed. In other words, women in the East are machines and robots for men to satisfy their sexual needs. Women who fake an orgasm are actually making a sacrifice. In other words, the woman keeps silent because she does not want to humiliate her husband and reveal her sexual incompetence. Another reason for simulation is that a woman wants her husband to be a good, passionate lover. she wants to show that she is, gives a man a feeling of satisfaction. Most women want to save themselves from the unpleasant process of sexual intercourse because they do not enjoy it. And some simulate it because they are not sure that they can reach orgasm. Although it is not stated openly, some divorces in Azerbaijan are based on sexual insecurity, sexual relations between the parties there is also the conclusion that the incompatibility has stopped. Families with sexual incompatibility should refrain from divorce in order not to offend relatives and break up the family passes Some women endure sexual insecurity due to financial dependence on their husbands. Of course, sexual pleasure cannot be left to men alone. A woman should do something too. In old conservative Europe, the idea that "a real lady should not move in bed" has long lost its importance. But we still have this idea. If a woman behaves freely in bed, for example, if she is open like a Russian or European woman, the confident views of the Azerbaijani husband will be replaced by skeptical ones, inquiries will begin. For example: "Where did you learn this, where did you see it, or was it someone in your life before" and so on. In other words, such primitive and blunt questions can be asked as if we do not live in the Internet age. determine for yourself. Why is orgasm important for women in general? This is not only a process of pleasure, but also health. For example, French sexologists have studied that women who have an orgasm are more positive. Because during orgasm, endorphins - hormones that raise human mood - are released. Women who have regular orgasms do not face this problem. Orgasm keeps a woman young and fresh. In addition, phenylethylamine during orgasmmin is secreted. This in turn reduces appetite and leads to weight loss. Orgasm is the cure for insomnia. The tension accumulated during the day disappears and a person falls asleep comfortably. When an orgasm is not reached, a woman becomes nervous and stressed, which also causes some gynecological diseases. According to psychologists and sexologists, a woman's orgasm depends on psychological and social factors . For example, women who consider their marriages happy are more likely to orgasm, and those who are unhappy rarely reach orgasm. Considering the large number of social and domestic problems in Azerbaijan and the impact of these factors on marriage, it is not difficult to imagine the situation of women. For some women, it depends on how she had a relationship with her father as a child. If a girl is loved by her father, feels his understanding and support, then she also trusts her partner and enjoys an intimate relationship. In our families, the male child is usually preferred over the female child, and the female child is given a secondary, careless attitude. And these traumas take their toll in adulthood. German scientists are sure that if the partners have high intelligence or are compatible with each other, orgasm occurs more easily. In order to eliminate gender incompatibility in our society, taboos about it should be removed, between both sexes education should be done, women should tell the truth to men and dispel the stereotypes that they are supposed to be omnipotent. The idea of ​​"a real man is the one who turns a prostitute into an angel", which has become a cliché of Azerbaijani women, should be replaced by this slogan: "A real man is the one who brings a woman to orgasm." ** A few interesting notes about orgasm Orgasm is a Greek word. It means to burn with passion. 31 July is National Orgasm Day in Great Britain. September 10 is orgasm day in Europe. December 22 is World Orgasm Day. Female orgasm is several times stronger than male orgasm. Ancient Greek mythology says that the Gods turned Tiresias into a woman to punish him. When Zeus and Hera ask whether a woman or a man gets more pleasure during intercourse Tiresias said that a woman enjoys nine times more than a man.

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