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Do not argue in front of children. A peaceful family creates an environment where there is conflict, but it ends and does not become a form of life. Children don't have concrete thoughts. For this reason, they may accept the abstract concepts used in arguments as they are. Because their abstracting abilities are not developed, they tend to understand everything in nominal terms. For example, when you say: "You killed me", he can really think that your partner killed you. If you complain in the form of "I will leave, then you will understand my value", he believes that you will really leave. In families where argument is a way of life or communication, what children see and learn from their families they communicate with other people in this way. For them, establishing a relationship is an argument, and problem-solving methods are the only way. Environments where there are violent arguments will affect children's personality and school life in a negative direction, so avoid arguing in front of children. But sometimes this cannot be done. In this case, attention should be paid to the argument with literature and the child should not be drawn into the argument. Don't argue around your child What causes an argument in a child's environment? – Sometimes it can be a factor that prolongs the argument. – Creates feelings of confidence and security towards themselves and life. – The feeling that something bad is going to happen in their lives starts to dominate. – Focus on being attentive or silent. – Throughout their lives, they always avoid exposing themselves. – Because they feel the fear of a violent argument if they reveal themselves. Mom and Dad fighting leads to other concerns in children of all ages They fear that something will happen to them at a young age. In elementary school age, they begin to blame themselves or fear that their parents will leave. In adulthood, they feel the need to take sides or develop an attitude towards their parents and they begin to isolate themselves from them. Even at an advanced age, adult children are already worried that something will happen to their mother or father. they are closed. Don't let it judge Children are human beings with immature judgment. One should not expect those who lack the ability to judge to judge. What is our fear when we do not allow our child to go out alone? We fear that he will not be able to distinguish between right and wrong. But giving the same child the role of referee during an argument is equally stupid.

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